“iyi ama, evllik kutsald\u0131r, b\u00fcy\u00fckanne!”<\/p>\n
“kutsal olan sevdad\u0131r,” dedi. “\u00fc\u00e7 ku\u015fak g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, kad\u0131nlarla erkekler konusunda epey \u015fey bilen \u015fu ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131na kulak ver k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m. evlilikle a\u015fk\u0131n en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ili\u015fkisi yoktur. insan aile kurmak i\u00e7in evlenir, aile ise toplum olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in kurulur. toplum evlilikten vazge\u00e7mez. toplumu bir zincir sayarsak, her aile bir halkad\u0131r. bu halkalar\u0131 birbirine tutturmak i\u00e7in, hep benzer madenler aran\u0131r. insan evlenince be\u011fenilerini birbirine uydurmas\u0131, servetlerini birle\u015ftirmesi, benzer \u0131rklar\u0131 bir araya getirmesi, zenginlik ve \u00e7ocuk demek olan ortak \u00e7\u0131kar u\u011fruna \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekir. bak k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m, insan ya\u015farken bir kez evlenir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnya b\u00f6yle ister, ama do\u011fa bizi \u00f6yle yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, yirmi kez sevdaya tutulabilir. evlilik bir yasad\u0131r, anl\u0131yor musun, a\u015fksa bizi kimi zaman sa\u011fa, kimi zaman sola iten bir i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcd\u00fcr. insanlar, i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerimizle \u00e7eli\u015fen yasalar yapt\u0131lar, gerekliydi bu; ancak i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcler her zaman daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr, yasalar\u0131 insanlar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131na, i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcler tanr\u0131’dan geldi\u011fine g\u00f6re, onlara \u00e7ok direnmemek gerekir.
\n…
\n\u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ilac\u0131na konan \u015feker gibi, insan ya\u015fam\u0131 a\u015fkla, olabildi\u011fince \u00e7ok sevdayla tatland\u0131r\u0131lmazsa, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m, kimse ona bu haliyle katlanmak istemezdi.”
\n…
\n“…sizler kocalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu yaln\u0131z sizi sevece\u011fine inan\u0131yorsunuz galiba. hay allah, b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey ger\u00e7ekten olabilirmi\u015f gibi. bak ne diyorum sana, evlilik toplumun s\u00fcrebilmesi i\u00e7in gereklidir elbet, ama soyumuz do\u011fas\u0131nda b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey yoktur, anl\u0131yor musun? insan \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn biricik g\u00fczel \u015feyi sevdad\u0131r. ve onu yanl\u0131\u015f anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7irkinle\u015ftirdi\u011finiz i\u00e7in, dinsel bir eylem gibi y\u00fcceltiyor ya da sat\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z entariye d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcyorsunuz.”
\n…
\n“dikkat et k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m; b\u00f6yle \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131klara inan\u0131yorsan, \u00e7ok mutsuz olursun.”<\/p>\n
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“iyi ama, evllik kutsald\u0131r, b\u00fcy\u00fckanne!” “kutsal olan sevdad\u0131r,” dedi. “\u00fc\u00e7 ku\u015fak g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, kad\u0131nlarla erkekler konusunda epey \u015fey bilen \u015fu ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131na kulak ver k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131m. evlilikle a\u015fk\u0131n en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ili\u015fkisi yoktur. insan aile kurmak i\u00e7in evlenir, aile ise toplum olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in kurulur. toplum evlilikten vazge\u00e7mez. toplumu bir zincir sayarsak, her aile bir halkad\u0131r. bu … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hersey"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=243"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":257,"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions\/257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ersinakyuz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}